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Posts by Jo Christner, Psy.D. (Page 9)

HOPE Connection: Our Grief Support Group Philosophy

Since 1979, HOPE Connection, a Los Angeles Grief Support Group, has helped individuals grieve and heal. For over 35 years, HOPE Connection has provided a safe place for individuals to grieve. The key to that longevity  is that HOPE provides these services by using only licensed therapists to facilitate groups in a supportive, safe, non-judgmental setting.  Our groups are focused on specific losses:…

Grief Support Groups: Positives and Pitfalls

Since 1979, HOPE Connection, a Los Angeles Grief Support Group, has helped individuals grieve and heal.

When a person’s loved one dies, reality quickly sets in. This is a permanent change, and the process of grieving has only begun. People often approach the person at this stage and offer some advice: “You should check out a grief support group.”

But are grief support groups for everyone? Are all grief support groups alike? 
The answer,

A Different Grief – A Man’s Grief

Everyone goes through a natural grieving process when a death occurs. We each behave and express feelings according to the way we’ve been taught and as modeled by our society, our culture, our family, our peers and other influences. A belief system is created that affects the way that we perceive life, death and grief.

Although men and women both feel pain and grieve when they suffer a loss, the way they deal with grief is where the differences in their grieving become apparent. The differences we see in “his” and “her” grief responses are due to our different styles of coping with pain and loss.

There are many factors that cause these differences in coping… and most often we were carefully “taught.”

depressed man

From childhood, we are taught different gender roles. Little girls are taught and encouraged to share feelings, express needs and receive support from others. This support system is acquired over a lifetime.